tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-41120139874170647512024-03-05T04:30:34.011+00:00Living that lifeLouise Ingramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02294703588706797702noreply@blogger.comBlogger158125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4112013987417064751.post-26336303519143607492015-11-01T10:01:00.002+00:002015-11-01T10:01:46.308+00:00Under a snuggly blanketI love to make blankets for babies and almost everyone, it seems, loves to get a handmade gift for their newborn. So with two new babies expected in our family this summer, I had a lovely task ahead of me.<br />
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My parents were planning a trip to visit my sister and (hopefully) her new baby in mid-August and my gift had to be on that flight with them so that was a fixed deadline! I started early, soon after my sister sent me an image of the nursery scheme they had included in their baby list. I love a crochet squares blanket; all those little finishes, each square, each colour, each joined seam, each border colour! I was finishing it right up til the last minute; I had to borrow a wool needle from my mum to sew in the border ends before I could leave it with them!<br />
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I had to tweak the colours towards the end to keep the balance more on the blues than the others and I'm really pleased at how it came out. It's loosely based on the Elmer blanket from Little Tin Bird, my go-to crochet square for babies.</div>
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We were expecting a proper surprise this time round; no clue at all from any of our scans so I decided on a rainbow blanket for our little one. This is a crochet granny stripe, you can find loads of patterns online but I think I originally found mine at Attic24. It's approximately 60cm by 120cm, the same size as our cot, but folded in half, it's doing very nicely for the moses basket at the moment.</div>
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As usual, for both blankets, I've used Stylecraft Special DK acrylic yarn. It's cheap and cheerful but you wouldn't know that from the feel of the finished blanket. It's perfect for baby blankets because you can bung it in the washing machine and it washes and dries beautifully.</div>
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This blanket was not finished before the baby arrived but I did get it done in time to use it as a backdrop for some important photos!</div>
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Louise Ingramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02294703588706797702noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4112013987417064751.post-34425574446085990102015-10-25T08:23:00.001+00:002015-10-25T08:23:58.381+00:00On our final arrivalLooking back over my archives, the reason I've been quiet for so long is predictable;<br />
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This little love joined our noisy family at the end of August. This year has been so full of good things that keeping sane meant choosing what to drop. Children, home, work, husband and sleep won out!<br />
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He was nameless for nearly a week, much longer than our other little ones whose names were mostly set before they were born. It didn't help that we truly didn't know what we were expecting; we actually had a girl's name ready to go. He'd been Eli in my head for weeks but it didn't seem long enough for a 'proper' name. A couple of days after he was born, Andy suggested Elias (which is the Greek form of Elijah and means 'The Lord Most High') but it was another 3 days before we could discuss it properly and make a decision.<br />
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The children have adored him since day one; I'm slightly concerned that Sammy will love him to pieces! He's settled in nicely and I've felt better after this delivery than I did after any of the others. Life carries on around him; Isaac's back at school for Year One, Anna's at preschool 5 mornings a week and Sam is just learning to talk.<br />
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Andy and I are tired and busy but delighted that our family is complete. Here's to the next stage on our big adventure!Louise Ingramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02294703588706797702noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4112013987417064751.post-52732466533580456792015-01-01T17:49:00.002+00:002015-01-01T17:49:41.686+00:00On New Year's DaySo at the beginning of last year I made a few lists of things I'd like to accomplish in 2014. Reading back now, it's interesting to see which things got done and which are still hanging over me.<br />
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: Courier New, Courier, FreeMono, monospace;"><span style="font-size: 15px; line-height: 20.7900009155273px;">I'd forgotten that my take-home message last year was to moderate my expectations to fit the season. I was discussing this with friends yesterday and one of them commented that I was good at deciding when to let things go and just accept what was possible. Looking back over the year, of course there have been times when I've sat on the floor and cried, but for the most part, I've made my priorities and put them into practise. I think I must have said a million times this year 'how do I do it all? I don't, my house is untidy and unclean.' It's the truth, and I'm satisfied with that.</span></span></div>
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Louise Ingramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02294703588706797702noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4112013987417064751.post-34376154299116702772014-10-13T13:32:00.001+01:002014-10-13T13:32:56.496+01:00From a smaller perspectiveI take a lot of photos. A. Lot. But other than the occasional selfie, they're pretty much all of other people. My hubby's pretty good though, when I hand him the camera, he takes great photos for me. Earlier this year, at Isaac's birthday party, I did just that but boy was I not pleased with the results. Don't get me wrong, Andy took some lovely shots that captured the day and all the things we got up to. It was that cuddly mummy I saw wearing my clothes. I knew that I'd put on weight after my babies; I managed to lose some of it after Anna and then put it back on again once she was breast-feeding less often, and then some more when I was pregnant with Sam. Something about those photos really brought home to me how much I didn't look like myself and this time, I was going to do something about it. I was determined that I would take Isaac to school and meet all his new classmates at a weight that felt like me. Plus, I've always hoped for four children and there was no way I was accumulating more weight with another pregnancy. I struggled more with Samuel than with the others and I knew that I wouldn't manage all my reponsibilities during a fourth pregnancy without getting healthier.<br />
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I started off with an exercise routine that a few of my friends were doing but to be honest, I was in denial about the main cause of my weight; our diet. A friend had recently posted some amazing photos of her weight loss through Slimming World and I was inspired. I knew she had a busy family life and worked as well so I thought this might be the way for me. I do really well when I've got a structure to follow and some accountability. I've been a member of Weight Watchers in the past and I knew that their point-counting plan wouldn't work with our family routines and meals.<br />
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I joined a great group nearby on a Tuesday morning and stood on the scales that first day to find out that I was the largest I have ever been. I had just been out to buy some size 16 trousers because I had nothing that would fit me. I dutifully took my measurements and wrote it all down. I had a dream weight; a number that has always been in my head, that I've never thought I could get back to, based on a photograph when my arms and my face are skinny.<br />
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Fast forward 17 weeks and I've done it. I've hit that target weight and I feel fantastic. I've been shopping and bought everything in a size 10, knowing that it would fit me when I tried it on. I own skinny jeans, elegant boat-neck jumpers and clingy t-shirts. I feel like myself again. It is awesome.<br />
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I can't pretend it's been easy but it hasn't been amazingly hard either. I just followed the Slimming World plan; loads of fruit and vegetables, lean protein and starchy carbs with enough treats to keep me sane. I didn't eat white bread for 3 months. I stopped adding oil to food. I grill instead of frying. I bought fun size Milky Ways and sugar free squash. I rediscovered yoghurt. The nice thing about the plan for me is that I can see the sound nutritional principles behind it and that it's flexible enough to deal sensibly with breast-feeding (increasing your calcium-rich dairy foods). I'm trying to find a new balance now, where I can maintain this healthy weight as I adapt to feeding Sam less often and eventually stopping.<br />
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I'm so proud of myself for sticking with it and for achieving my goal. And now, when I hand Andy the camera, I get photos I like looking at!Louise Ingramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02294703588706797702noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4112013987417064751.post-26964062910546798712014-09-20T10:35:00.000+01:002014-09-20T10:35:00.054+01:00In ten minutes flatEveryone has those days where you look around your house and want to scream. There's always something else that needs doing. I'm fighting a battle with the clutter and the dust and I'm losing! (Everyone feels like that, right? Please tell me I'm not the only one!)<br />
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I have this little trick for those times when I think I will actually scream if something doesn't get done, sharpish! I put the kettle on to boil to make a cup of coffee (it's an instant caramel latte actually, but I won't judge if you want to make tea instead) then I look around for the most visually impactful jobs. The things that jump straight out at me, accusingly. Usually it's putting away the washing up or taking the recycling out to the bin. (We pile our recycling on the counter after it's been rinsed or just inside the front door if it's coming down from upstairs.) I spend the time it takes for the water to boil and then cool enough to be ready for coffee blitzing the things that jump out at me. Usually I end up thinking 'just one more thing' and getting a few more bits done too. After I'm finished, I haven't usually spent more than five minutes cleaning or tidying and there's always more things to do but there's something about doing those little bitty jobs that get glossed over again and again. I think it's because I see them all over the place, nagging at me. Getting them done seems so freeing and helps me relax. Occasionally it even gives me the energy and motivation to move on to something more significant. Mostly I just take my coffee and go find something more fun to do.Louise Ingramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02294703588706797702noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4112013987417064751.post-69442675108018506592014-09-17T10:28:00.000+01:002014-09-17T10:28:20.279+01:00From Granny and Grandpa, with love<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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My parents have given each of our children their first teddy bear. They started the tradition with Isaac; actually, he got two bears, a traditional brown bear and a modern Kaloo bear, now referred to as crocodile bear. They came to stay with us the day after Isaac was born and drove into town especially to buy his first bear. So it was just natural that they'd bring a teddy for Anna and Samuel when they arrived.<br />
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Isaac's teddy wears a fireman outfit these days and has recently been to school because they're looking at bears this term. Anna's teddy is supposed to wear a jaunty little necktie but you're more likely to find it around Isaac's neck than teddy's. Samuel's teddy sits in the corner of his cot and gets chewed on regularly.<br />
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I still have my first teddy bear; he's a bit thread-bare now but he sits on the top of my bed and gets mauled occasionally by well-meaning children. He sat on a bookshelf above my bunkbed at home then moved to university with me. He has no name but he's so precious to me. He has always had a place in our bedroom and I think he always will.<br />
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I'm glad that my children have their own family heirlooms and I'm looking forward to hearing them tell their stories to their own children one day.Louise Ingramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02294703588706797702noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4112013987417064751.post-39091507837137033422014-08-27T16:01:00.002+01:002014-08-27T16:01:39.189+01:00At the startI feel like this day should be more momentous. Tomorrow you start school; for the next 13 years, God willing, you will be a schoolchild. This is our last day together without a time limit hanging over us. There'll be holidays, of course, but our normal will be school, five days a week.<br />
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I hope we've chosen well. Your school seems like an environment where you'll thrive. Your EYFS teacher is exactly what I'd choose if I got to design her just for you. This is the start of a long relationship; unless we move, Anna and Samuel will go through this school too. It's reassuring that the other parents are all so positive about their experience of the school.<br />
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If I'm honest, I'm worried about how it will go. I know you're excited and you're looking forward to it. I know you'll walk into the room confidently and enjoy your first days with your class. But you're a 4 year old boy and you're impatient, energetic and impulsive. I want other people to see the kind, clever, independent boy I love so much.<br />
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I hope we've loved you enough in the last four years to help you stand firm in the sea you're about to enter. The waves of culture and peer pressure are strong ones and there are hidden currents that can knock you off your feet. <br />
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Until now, I've stood between you and the world but tomorrow you're starting a journey of your own. I will be a cheerleader and a coach but it's your life to live. I've said it before, parenthood is a journey in the direction of apart. My main purpose is to enable you to live a life that's more and more independent from my own. I can't fight your battles for you, I just have to trust the One who's always watching over you. <br />
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And isn't that what we've always been doing? God gave you to us to be our firstborn, much beloved son. For all the love and care we offer, there's always been a gap we can't fill. My mum repeats an old saying; "you do your best and God does the rest".<br />
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Every now and again I catch glimpses of the man you might become. He's strong and independent, kind and loving, funny and sweet. I love you so much, my baby boy. You made me a mother and you make me a better person day-by-day. I'm more patient, more forgiving, more joyful because I have you. I know you're going to have fun tomorrow, I know you're going to fly. It seems like an age since you were my baby, it seems like no time at all. <br />
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I haven't blogged about <a href="http://www.beckyhiggins.com/" target="_blank">project life</a> for more than a year and I've had a bit of a change of approach in that time. I'm still completing a single side for each week, highlighting small moments and events from our daily lives. I subscribed to the <a href="http://www.studiocalico.com/kits" target="_blank">Studio Calico Project Life</a> kits for about six months but they didn't quite fit with my style. More recently, I've been getting the <a href="http://www.gossamerblue.com/product-category/life-pages-kits/" target="_blank">Gossamer Blue Life Pages</a> monthly kits and they're great. I love that I don't have to search my stash for ages to put co-ordinating supplies together. The kits have tended to go quite well with each other; there's always something I can carry over to the next month's pages. Changing up my supplies every 4 or 5 weeks keeps things interesting as well.<br />
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These are my pages from May, made with the May Gossamer Blue kit. I love the bright colours and the little stickers. One of the things I like most about the kits is that they also come with a free co-ordinating printable, full of small icons, labels and journalling blocks.<br />
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A lovely weekend at my parents' home, celebrating my Dad's 60th birthday. For special occasions such as this, I usually include an insert for extra photos and stories. This combination of single sided weeks and occasional inserts works really well for me, capturing the memories I don't want to forget without producing mountains of albums every year.<br />
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Another insert to capture our first overnight camping trip with the children and our new (inflatable) tent!<br />
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I'm storing all my regular pages alongside my project life spreads in one set of albums for each year. I just add the regular pages in roughly the right places chronologically. It's a nice way to highlight special photos or add some more details for holidays or events that have multiple pictures.<br />
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Louise Ingramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02294703588706797702noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4112013987417064751.post-87562279598369187732014-08-05T17:02:00.004+01:002014-08-05T17:03:57.234+01:00For the love of givingI got my first blanket commission a couple of months ago; a friend asked me to make a blanket like Samuel's to co-ordinate with her friends' nursery. They chose the <a href="http://www.mothercare.com/Mothercare-Snoozie-Safari-Bedding-Collection/psX3735,default,pd.html" target="_blank">Snoozie Safari collection</a> from Mothercare so after a quick reccie, I selected these colours of Stylecraft Special DK;<br />
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I used the dark green in the end, it just seemed to go better when I went to Mothercare to check out the collection in real life. I tend to make these squares in stages; all the middles first, then the second round, then the third and finally the white outside rounds. It's easier to ensure I'm getting a mix and balance of colours in the squares.</div>
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I completed twenty-five squares and joined them into a blanket using <a href="http://www.littletinbird.co.uk/free-crochet-tutorials/joining-granny-squares/" target="_blank">Little Tin Bird's technique</a>. I'm not a fan of square blankets, they seem to be less useful to me so I added another two rows (or ten squares) to oblong it out a bit. Joining these squares is quite a quick process and very satisfying.<br />
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After joining, I added a round of white double crochet and then three rounds in half double crochet in saffron, meadow and lipstick. It looks lovely and feels so squishy now it's all done. And here it is all parcelled up, ready to go to its new home.<br />
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Louise Ingramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02294703588706797702noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4112013987417064751.post-57554591489851957622014-07-30T10:05:00.000+01:002014-07-30T10:05:00.483+01:00In the three month bubbleMy brain is finally starting to come out of its postpartum fog. The first clue was when I started thinking about next week's meal plan while still planning this week's. It's difficult to understand the psychological and cognitive changes that happen after having a baby. Almost everyone is familiar with the physical and emotional consequences of such a massive, life-changing event but the effects on your mind and thinking aren't quite as obvious. It's easy to think that you ought to be able to get back to a normal level of functioning relatively quickly but after having three babies, I've realised that it takes me about three months to start to rejoin the world.<br />
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Initially following the arrival of a new baby, I feel like I've crawled into a little hole. It's a cosy, comfy little hole, full of cushions and knitted blankets. I can watch the world passing by up above but I don't quite feel part of it, a sort of dream-like quality. Getting to know the new arrival and remolding our life around them takes a lot of time and energy. Not to mention the tiredness that comes from sleep-deprivation and recovering from the physical exertion of delivery (however you deliver, it's still a massive undertaking; a Caesarean is a major abdominal operation). Your hormones are raging, causing all sorts of emotional upset. Plus your life has changed indescribably, whether it's your first baby or your third (I can't talk from personal experience past three, but I can imagine). Add to that the change in your relationship with your partner, who's also trying to adjust to the baby, and helping any other children to integrate and accept the new addition, and you can start to understand the emotional toll. Is it any wonder that your plate feels full by this point?!<br />
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After the first three months, I start to become comfortable psychologically venturing out of the house. You might have seen my physical being out and about but I wouldn't want to guarantee that my brain was present too! The cognitive difficulties still persist though. This is just selection of the issues that I'm still encountering, more than six months after the birth of my third child;<br />
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<li><i>Vocabulary </i>- I just cannot find the words these days. When I was going back to work after Isaac, I was really concerned that I wouldn't be able to remember the word in an emergency. As it happened, I didn't struggle at all. I couldn't remember the word for the "cold cupboard" in the kitchen but I never had that problem at work, go figure!</li>
<li><i>Names </i>- I think this might be a side effect of having so many children but I can't keep them straight anymore. I owe my mum an apology for all the times I complained about being called by the cat's name growing up!</li>
<li><i>Forward planning</i> - seeing to the end of the week is getting easier, starting to plan for next week... well that's another matter.</li>
<li><i>Complex thinking</i> - actually formulating something with more than one stage in my head? Yeah right! Give me twice as long to think about it!!</li>
<li><i>Distractions</i> - I'm starting to think about getting my hearing checked because if there's more than one conversation going on at once around me, I just can't concentrate. I can't multi-task, I have to focus solely on what I'm doing, so don't you dare ask me a question while I'm trying to put a vest on a wriggling baby!</li>
<li><i>Slow change</i> - you want to move on in our conversation? Change the subject to something else? Give me another couple of minutes, announce the change, give it another couple of minutes and then I might be ready to talk about something else.</li>
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Things do get better; like I said, I'm moving out of the fog these days. I have a few ideas of ways to cope and keep functioning during this time.<br />
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<li>First, and this is the hardest step I think,<i> take it easy</i>. Be kind to yourself. Recognise that you've been through a lot (pregnancy is no picnic, let alone labour and delivery) and are still going through a lot. Think about what you would tell a friend in these same circumstances and then tell yourself the same. Far too often we look around us at how everyone else is managing their perfect lives with their perfect children and feel inferior. The answer seems to be to just try harder, work harder, be more when actually there are seasons in life that require rest and recuperation. Enjoy the first months with a new baby, you'll never get them back. I promise you that the only person judging you is you, everyone else is too busy cooing at the baby!</li>
<li><i>Write it down</i>, don't expect your brain to be able to hold on to all the important things whizzing round in there these days. So lists and calendars are your friend, with the added bonus that you can buy a pretty notebook to keep those lists in!</li>
<li>Don't underestimate the importance of <i>routines</i>. When you do something in the same way on a regular basis, you develop a sort of muscle memory and you don't need to engage the thinking bit of your brain in quite the same way. Think of it as a rest for your brain. It's like driving or playing an instrument; when you first start, you have to think about every individual action (mirror, signal, manoeuvre) but as time goes on, they get grouped together into action sets (turn the corner) and require less thought. Doing the same thing at the same time each week, e.g. every Monday I go grocery shopping, reduces the decision-making element of the action, making it less of a challenge.</li>
<li>Don't be afraid to <i>ask for help</i> from those around you. And if someone offers to do something, at least think about it before you automatically say no. Maybe an hour off while someone else walks your older children to the park and back will be the difference between sanity and the other thing.</li>
<li>Decide what's important to you and <i>stop trying to do it all</i>. I do not clean. Literally, I've said this before, I vacuum when my carpet is crunchy, I clean my mirrors when I can't see myself in them anymore. It just doesn't bother me that much, I have better things to do with my time. It is impossible to do everything you need to, everything you think you ought to and everything you want to in every day. You'll only exhaust yourself trying.</li>
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Louise Ingramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02294703588706797702noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4112013987417064751.post-52067625743762612382014-07-26T09:42:00.002+01:002014-07-26T09:43:07.126+01:00In my scrapbookI have three scrapbook pages to share with you guys today, all made with Amy Tangerine's Cut and Paste collection plus some extra little bits and bobs.<br />
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The first is a page inspired by a semi-recent discussion on the Paperclipping Roundtable podcase about the importance of documenting collections. These two small figurines were the first presents I bought for my mum, on consecutive Christmases. I used my own money and we went to this lovely, random shop called Turtles in Croydon. Sadly it's shut now but it was a DIY-garden-craft-type store and seemed like a treasure trove to a young child.<br />
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I've been thinking about making this page for ages and it's one of my 'must-scrap' topics. I love to knit and crochet in front of the tv in the evenings. I quite often give my creations away as gifts for new babies; there's something wonderful about giving a handmade blanket or hat as a welcome present. Each of my children has a handmade blanket but I never managed to make a hat for the older two. You'd think it would be easy but apparently not! I was inspired by Leanne's colour choices for her younger son's hospital blanket and she used the leftover yarn to make a simple stripey hat too. I used Little Tin Bird's Peacock Blue blanket square and the Magic Coffee hat pattern. I also made Samuel a puerperium cardigan and a Milo vest and you can find details on both on my ravelry page.<br />
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And this page is a 'capture now and celebrate cute pictures' page. There's no important story to tell but sometimes the little everyday moments are the easiest to forget and the sweetest to recall. Samuel in a box, cos that's Andy's sense of humour.Louise Ingramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02294703588706797702noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4112013987417064751.post-9455672420320362592014-07-17T21:39:00.004+01:002014-07-17T21:39:41.253+01:00For the love of family food<div style="text-align: center;">
<i>While I am a qualified children's doctor, I'm only relating my experiences with my children on this blog. The NHS has plenty of information available for mums and dads in the UK about weaning and other children's health issues.</i></div>
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I'll be honest right off the bat and say that this isn't Sam's first tastes of food. He started with cucumber ten days ago or so and we've just returned from a big family holiday where my mum and my siblings delighted in offering him bits off their plates. Whenever I recommend baby-led weaning to anyone, their first question is always "what sort of foods do you give him/her?" My answer, whatever we're having, doesn't seem specific enough so I guess this post is me fleshing that out a bit.<br />
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When I say 'whatever we're having', I do mean it literally. That did require some changes to what I was cooking at first (more fruit & veg, less salt) but with two children already eating with us four days a week, our family meals are pretty baby-ready these days.<br />
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We've literally just got back from a week-long holiday in the Lakes so there's pretty much nothing in our fridge and I had no plan for dinner. That usually means oven-ready food or pasta and sure enough I scavenged up the ingredients for tuna pasta bake. Since the replacements straps and padded insert for the highchair arrived while we were away, there was no reason Sam couldn't join us.<br />
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I started off with some pasta and 'bits' in a bowl but he's not quite tall enough to see into it yet so we quickly moved on to using just the tray.<br />
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This is a new experience for Sam; it's only the second or third time he's been in a highchair so he has no idea what to expect. He's fed-up! I hand him a single pasta twirl and he takes it to his mouth to suck.<br />
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He struggles to pick up the pasta initially and gets frustrated so I pass him pieces of pasta. I also put smallish bits of tuna and sauce on my fingers and offer them to him. He takes the food eagerly and moves it round his mouth. I'm not sure he's swallowed anything yet but he's very happy just 'playing' with the food.<br />
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After a little while, maybe 10 minutes, he's getting frustrated with the pasta so I slice a nectarine into quarters and offer him one. Again, he doesn't know what it is or what it's for, so I gently wipe it across his lips. He licks the juice and realises this is good. And then he's off. Nectarine is a winner! He struggles occasionally to pick up the slippery fruit but for the most part he's doing this all himself.<br />
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After finishing most of the nectarine, he goes back to the pasta. Random food combinations are a big feature of BLW; strawberry petit filous and king prawns, anyone?! He's getting the hang of it now and quite confidently brings pasta to his mouth for a suck and a chew. I'm sure I've heard him swallow at some point but I guess we'll know for sure with tomorrow's nappies!<br />
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This is all going on during a family meal. We're talking about our favourite parts of our holiday with the children and discussing our upcoming house project. All four of us, the children are great at this, are positive and encouraging to Sam. Lots of smiles and praise for what he's doing. We've also introduced the signs for 'more' and 'finished'; these are the two I found most useful with Isaac at this age. It'll take a while before Sam joins in but the repetition is key to getting it to stick. <br />
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A note about the floor; weaning is a messy business. No, sorry, children are a messy business. And never more so than when they eat. Isaac knocked his cup over, spilling his squash. Anna doesn't wear a top whenever we have tomato-based sauces. We have tile flooring that wipes clean beautifully. Usually anything that hits the floor comes straight back into the bowl to be played with/eaten again. But like I said, we've just got home from a week away, leaving the cats in the house and I haven't cleaned the floor yet. Plus tuna and pasta are a pretty good cat-attraction device!<br />
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On clean-up; start at the top and work your way down. I wear rubber gloves and remove the food first. I wipe the tray, knocking leftover bits onto the floor mostly. Then I wipe the child and remove bibs or dirty clothing. As it happens, hubby is running a bath so I offloaded Sam to him but if I'm on my own, I get the baby something to do before I carry on. Quite a lot of meals are easier to clean up once they're dry anyway. Then I wipe the highchair from top to bottom, not forgetting the rails on the floor. And finally the floor. I don't generally use disinfectant unless there's some stuck-on mess or it's really gross. Hot soapy water on an e-cloth is enough for me; wearing gloves means I can use really hot dish washing water.<br />
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And highchairs? I love our East Coast folding wooden chair. I bought it for Isaac along with a traditional, padded PVC one, which was a nightmare to get clean and went mouldy in storage. I've just ordered a new insert (from Argos but look online for the best price) and new straps (from east coast) and it looks great. The tray lifts over the top so you can sit them right up at the table too. But if I were buying again today, I'd get the ikea highchair. I can almost guarantee you've seen it out & about. A white plastic seat with a removable tray (both dishwasher safe!!) and long grey legs. It's so easy to clean, light and it's only £12 (£16 with the tray)!!<br />
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<br />Louise Ingramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02294703588706797702noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4112013987417064751.post-57738373236367954302014-06-30T21:27:00.000+01:002014-06-30T21:27:33.607+01:00On knitting for baby<i><a href="http://www.ravelry.com/patterns/library/milo-3" target="_blank">Milo Vest</a> in Rico Essentials Merino DK in Khaki </i>| This was such a quick and lovely knit. I actually cast it on just before I had Samuel and finished it in the first couple of weeks afterwards. It's my first attempt at cable knitting and it was a lovely introduction piece. You can choose your cable pattern and since it's such a small section with plenty of plain stocking stitch in between, it's not too taxing for the brain.<br />
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<i>Samuel's Blanket in Rico Soft Merino Aran, Various (Natural, Fuchsia, Mandarine, Jeans, Eucalyptus, Grey, Pistachio)</i> | I've made a blanket for each of my babies, though I still haven't finished sewing the ends on Isaac's. This yarn was recommended by a friend and it's lovely and squishy. I chose a neutral colour palette because we didn't find out the baby's sex before he arrived. The granny square is from <a href="http://www.littletinbird.co.uk/2013/02/11/finally-finished-peacock-blue-blanket/" target="_blank">Little Tin Bird</a>. I finished the squares and the cream border but ran out of the eucalyptus with about 6 inches left to do. The colour has been discontinued but I found a ball at <a href="http://www.thehomemakery.co.uk/" target="_blank">The Homemakery</a>, I can really recommend this store, the service is excellent.<br />
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<i><a href="http://www.ravelry.com/patterns/library/puerperium-cardigan" target="_blank">Puerperium</a> in Sirdar Snuggly Smiley Stripes, Bambini Blue </i>| I finished this little cardie just before Samuel arrived but didn't manage buttons for a few weeks afterwards. I did it in newborn size, which fit for about a month but then I do breed decent-sized babies.<br />
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<i><a href="http://www.ravelry.com/patterns/library/magic-coffee-baby-hat" target="_blank">Magic Coffee Hat</a> in Rico Soft Merino Aran, various | </i>I didn't manage to make hats for Isaac or Anna but I used the odd ends of my blanket yarn to make a simple striped hat for Samuel. This was while I was waiting for the extra teal to edge the blanket, which is why it doesn't appear in the hat.<br />
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<br />Louise Ingramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02294703588706797702noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4112013987417064751.post-33178666168181386902014-06-27T15:00:00.000+01:002014-06-27T15:00:00.943+01:00On a little knitty fun<div class="" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I took these photos intentionally so I could make this page documenting Sam's love of his monkey toy. I wanted to pull out the bright red and orange alongside the pale blue of his babygro so I dug through my scraps and paper collections to find some different options. It's simple, but it's another important story ready to go in his album (once I actually buy one for him....).<br />
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I made this for a class over at Big Picture Classes; the Art and Science of Scrapbooking, which looked at the concept of right- and left-brain tendencies. The challenge was to find a beautiful photo and use this to make a layout (this is how I make most of my 12x12s, left-brained anyone?!). I love the way Anna is looking at Andy. I made 10 page-bases recently, using up the left-overs of a few collections that I loved, and this was one of them so this page came together really quickly. The little deer diecut comes from the Studio Calico Printshop line but I really didn't think the colour went with any of the papers I bought from the line so I'm glad it got used here.<br />
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The realities of a photoshoot with three children - you get twenty or thirty crazy shots before you get the perfect pose with everyone smiling or at least looking at the camera!<br />
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Samuel's 3 month photoshoot; I'm adding the vest stickers as embellishment on these pages, mostly cos I can't throw anything away! For this page, I pulled papers to match the stickers from the Simple Stories Baby Boy stickers, those elephants are so cute!<br />
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These two pages go next to each other and tell the story of the Easter Egg Hunt we went on with some of my mummy friends. We've never done an egg hunt before and the children loved it. I think the bit they enjoyed the most was playing around in the park and woods with their friends. These are two more page bases with some similar papers to tie them together nicely. I got to use up some really cute Easter project life printables from last year and a few random bits and bobs hanging around on my desk.Louise Ingramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02294703588706797702noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4112013987417064751.post-23119134864209692152014-06-23T12:43:00.000+01:002014-06-23T12:43:07.448+01:00On the 11th of JuneAt 5 months old, you;<br />
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<i>eat </i>| still exclusively breast-feed every 3 or 4 hours. You're awake once in the night around 3am to feed;<br />
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<i>sleep | </i>in your moses basket in the cot in the nursery, under a pile of handmade blankets (I love this about your bedding, so so much). You're having 2 short naps in the morning and evening and a 2-3 hour mega-nap in the middle of the day;<br />
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<i>wear </i>| 3-6 month clothes, mostly just babygros. It's still an event if you're wearing proper clothing. I have pulled out some rompers for the hot hot days and you're not wearing a vest under your gro much these days;<br />
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<i>poop </i>| in cloth nappies all day, disposables at night;<br />
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<i>love </i>| your big brother, so so much, he's the funniest thing you've ever seen! Having your nappy changed so you can grab at your willy, and the baby wipes, and the packet, and pretty much everything else! Being naked!<br />
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<i>hate </i>| waiting to be fed and not getting attention, you've turned into a proper little diva lately;<br />
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<i>do </i>| you stretch and try to roll but you can't quite sort your shoulders out to get all the way over, you have rolled from your front to your back on one occasion but you won't repeat the performance! You still love to stand up and look around. You can sit with support and you're straining to pull yourself forward from lying down;<br />
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<i>say </i>| burbling to yourself and blowing raspberries, with plenty of spit everywhere! You're a social little thing and love to smile at the people who talk to you when we're out and about. You've learned to laugh properly this month too, a lovely belly laugh;<br />
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<i>grow</i> | you cut your first tooth on the day you turned 5 months, so early! You're bringing everything to your mouth for a good old chew.Louise Ingramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02294703588706797702noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4112013987417064751.post-54166477352387326482014-05-23T12:30:00.000+01:002014-05-23T12:30:02.171+01:00Under canvasWell, sort of.<br />
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Hubby grew up camping on the Isle of Wight as a boy and has a strong and fervent love for all things tenty. We camped a couple of times before we had children, but I was not convinced of its merits. The idea of taking a baby or small children camping did not fill me with joy; in fact, I expected to need a holiday after my holiday should we go camping as a family. Until the Anna was on the way, we didn't even take a regular holiday each year. We both agree that there are some lovely holiday destinations in this country and I'm not a fan of flying anyway. So we have taken a few holidays in England, staying in holiday cottages but the boy starts school in September and taking a family of five away in school holidays would break our bank.<br />
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Enter the idea of a tent. Apparently you can camp in relative comfort without crossing over into "glamping". So we went and bought a tent. An <a href="http://www.kampa.co.uk/air/southwold-8" target="_blank">enormous, 8 man, inflatable tent</a> (I know, I know, but go check them out, they're pretty cool). We bought the essentials (sleeping bags, campbeds, an airbed, camping chairs) and planned out a strategy. I have some pre-requisites for the campsite; hot showers, flushing toilets, running water. And there's no way on earth I'm heading out for a week under canvas with no run-up.<br />
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We tested the sleeping bags at my parents' house a couple of weeks ago. Well, the children in their sleeping bags really. And they did a great job.<br />
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This past weekend, we headed out for an overnight stay not too far from home. We packed the car and tootled up to Derbyshire on a sunny Saturday morning. We arrived just before midday and started to make camp. The tent took about an hour to inflate and peg out (it might have been quicker if the children hadn't "helped"). We put out all our equipment and headed off to Matlock in search of a playground (Isaac's request). We wandered through a park, took a ride on a mini-train and spent a lovely hour playing in the sunshine.<br />
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We headed to a pub for dinner and ate our amazing steaks out in the sunny garden. We arrived back at our campsite around 7pm with three very tired children. Both the bigs needed a shower, an interesting experience even on a modern, well-equipped campsite. They went to bed reasonably easily that night and hubby & I enjoyed the peaceful summer evening with a bottle of something cold. Isaac slept really well that night, Anna was up a half a dozen times with a cough and Samuel just wouldn't settle in his cot so slept in my arms.<br />
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The next morning we got up and ate porridge at a picnic table before packing up all our stuff for the journey home. The tent itself is really easy to deflate, if a little tricky to pack up into its carrying bag. We were ready to go by our midday deadline, which is surprising for us, we're never on time anywhere.<br />
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We visited Matlock Farm Park and ate lunch in their cafe. They had the best 'snack plate' for the children; Isaac ate everything on his! The playground and the bouncy castle were the biggest hits but when we dragged the children away, they loved the animals too. I had the best time holding a baby bunny with first Anna and then Isaac. Anna's so funny with animals; she's fascinated and enchanted, until they get within a foot of her, at which point she becomes terrified!!<br />
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Unsurprisingly, all three children fell asleep in the car on the way home. Hubby and I needed a good rest but all in all, we had a brilliant time. We're planning our next trip already, two nights this time, I'm getting braver!Louise Ingramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02294703588706797702noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4112013987417064751.post-29446192457404674092014-05-21T13:46:00.004+01:002014-05-21T13:46:47.789+01:00Around our dining room tableOne of the memories I want to leave my children is that of sitting around the table as a family, enjoying food and conversation together. As with seemingly every other aspect of parenting, it turns out that modelling the behaviour you want your children to adopt is the best route to take. So the best way to teach table manners, healthy food attitudes and good conversational skills is to display them on a regular basis.<br />
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Part of our weaning strategy (if you can call it that) is having the children sit at the table as part of the family. It feels awkward at first, to try and make conversation with a toddler while still maintaining some semblence of order. Every day we ask the same question and let that lead us into a conversation. "How was your day?"<br />
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It feels daft to ask a toddler what they did that day and what their favourite part was. Especially when you then use closed questions to get them to tell you something you already know. "Tell Daddy what you saw in the carpark."<br />
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But it's paying off, because now, the three year old is asking us how our day was. And the two year old copies her brother. And we're actually having a conversation.Louise Ingramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02294703588706797702noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4112013987417064751.post-49548650200825673142014-05-11T23:26:00.000+01:002014-05-11T23:26:34.458+01:00On the 11th of May<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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You're in some brand-spanking new 3-6 month babygros (your cloth bum is too big for the slightly shrunken hand-me-downs you started the month in). You wear cloth nappies all day but disposable nappies overnight and when we go away.<br />
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You've learned to hold toys in your fists and pass from one hand to another. You bring everything to your mouth to be chewed! You've found your feet! You like to fiddle with your toes. You happily play on the floor or in your chair.<br />
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You've started arching your back and twisting so you'll be rolling soon. You pull yourself forward to sit up and you love to stand up. You're not so sure about tummy time but you'll tolerate it for longer than your siblings ever did! You've started to pull yourself forward to sit up.<br />
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You smile and laugh at funny noises, singing and being thrown around. You have found your voice; cooing, burbling and shrieking! You sleep in the car, but not every time any more. You still don't have a daily routine but you sleep well overnight with only one night feed. You settle down happily for your naps and nighttime sleep. We know you're tired when you start rubbing your eyes or yawning.<br />
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You've found your thumb! You feed well but have started getting distracted and looking up at me to smile. You still have horrid wind and spit up after most feeds. You weighed 15lb 7oz at your four month check. You've had your first two sets of immunisations. You have another snotty cold.<br />
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You are a happy, smiley sociable baby. You'll go to strangers without even blinking. You find your brother fascinating and hilarious. You find your sister slightly scary.<br />
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<br />Louise Ingramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02294703588706797702noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4112013987417064751.post-53898104985254160062014-04-12T20:26:00.001+01:002014-04-12T20:26:53.049+01:00On the 11th of AprilIf you've been reading this blog for the last couple of years, you'll understand that 1 day isn't that late for one of these posts!<br /><br /><center><a href='https://picasaweb.google.com/110685475785729203541/BloggerPictures?authkey=Gv1sRgCNXhqPSpranfaQ#6001489741931321362'><img src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiFH1Duqq0A9omszxv_T-Qdgi4PQ3B3UOf-_HVZ9WCbAbgDI8qmMOGxh-T6rBSFX0sCu9B8wduq3wg4Eb7QMiWUPxrJAnPEOUlQC7puSAbBOK-k9F1WLyhbLh9vQVwxYb0zwKe22XgQ8m0/s288/iphone_photo.jpg' border='0' width='209' height='280' style='margin:5px'></a></center><br />It's funny to think that this time 3 months ago we didn't know whether we were having a boy or a girl. I was in early labour and Andy insisted that this time we'd be ready to leave for the hospital without a last minute panic.<br /><br />It feels like this little man has been part of our family forever and yet also that he can't possibly be 3 months old already! I keep double-checking that I have all the children in the car before we leave; at some point I'm going to forget him, he's so quiet when he's sleeping!<br /><br /><center><a href='https://picasaweb.google.com/110685475785729203541/BloggerPictures?authkey=Gv1sRgCNXhqPSpranfaQ#6001489802213928610'><img src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgoj_6Qi4Bf9fZfn4WTV50VSq0QJ4bAizlXZUvd7qn4DherXoMhsjTLdL4YXmAzAuUuTsULn56vsL8VkVF_G8fIv-4ujvN35k68TX2tkCYwAMG5xE-7axq5kRuQ_EpoVSgmlxGb3WGtzGQ/s288/iphone_photo.jpg' border='0' width='280' height='210' style='margin:5px'></a></center><br />You're still exclusively breast-feeding, even if I keep almost offering you food by mistake. I've had mastitis this month which was a pain but quickly sorted with antibiotics. You've just started looking around while you feed and you smile at me when you catch my eye. You're still really windy and quite sicky with it. I'm going through fewer muslin cloths each day though so it must be getting better! You still have nasty cradle cap though your hair hides it well. <br /><br /><center><a href='https://picasaweb.google.com/110685475785729203541/BloggerPictures?authkey=Gv1sRgCNXhqPSpranfaQ#6001489864965575538'><img src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzgdHXlPOgbvw0FS7ADyuk7XPtdQNmgDERdh6pJLyME3LrQXXtzw0Xk-bQ_HzTIKOijOPvoc2LVBxOEZmyVPYWvG1yFBYS9kCFqAH8XGmtJ_81-KpzJxMWsX_EbMPLjciKozZZvcA5mYQ/s288/iphone_photo.jpg' border='0' width='209' height='280' style='margin:5px'></a></center><br />You sleep really well but we have no pattern AT ALL so far. Occasionally you sleep through the night but usually you wake once or twice. Half past five is my least favourite feed-time because there isn't quite enough time to go back to sleep properly before we have to get started for the day. You tend to have one long nap and several short ones during the day. Some evenings you sleep, some you spend on the sofa with us. You will always sleep in your carseat or the sling if you're tired but resisting a nap. Like Anna, you often whinge to yourself before dropping off. <br /><br /><center><a href='https://picasaweb.google.com/110685475785729203541/BloggerPictures?authkey=Gv1sRgCNXhqPSpranfaQ#6001489934607359218'><img src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEisF-hUHFDhYetoKHLw8PVdje9keGtuekx5kiA4WXz4amSqT464ifrCDkCdxiW5c9ZmzaJ6OaTfc-Ua_FKw3Ho8wmrXa-dilIFZfysEnfPIL8h1lg82wNPVGsoF3_pnTA72wVFkDYvzSag/s288/iphone_photo.jpg' border='0' width='209' height='280' style='margin:5px'></a></center><br />You tend to wake up and feed, have a nappy change, play then nap again. You cannot stand having a dirty nappy! You're mostly in cloth nappies but we've been really relaxed about using disposables when we need to. The only times you cry are when you're hungry, dirty or tired. Or if someone has just jumped on you. <br /><br /><center><a href='https://picasaweb.google.com/110685475785729203541/BloggerPictures?authkey=Gv1sRgCNXhqPSpranfaQ#6001489977873614050'><img src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjWS-0cx5ZeDs3B4rEqU2bS8CeVe8HxV4OUutfBwgiAb-pX_0t7LNhm_nSCDzS1jS1xTzwOui3A6UT9LqHCqB3PGnNiV7S2FMIn-GziJbniHK4wjYkKwy9VgmCmJjgoUJavsb8YToBtqgo/s288/iphone_photo.jpg' border='0' width='280' height='210' style='margin:5px'></a></center><br />You've found your hands lately & you chew them with gusto. You've started grabbing things and pulling them but more by luck than judgement. I've started giving you toys to hold and you lie on your mat, looking at the dangly things quite happily. You love to stand up and only need support for balance. You look really cute as your head bobbles around!<br /><br /><center><a href='https://picasaweb.google.com/110685475785729203541/BloggerPictures?authkey=Gv1sRgCNXhqPSpranfaQ#6001490040718796034'><img src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjetbfBU5UWvPO35JzzIEmz2wSlOP2z86xJsFwZfnLzwxuRGTGywOPUdn7j2H1fhVYO5UCtO4bVSzPb4n9joiAKter_LhhjwBek7z9jcm0ysNHseSP1WAAFuE66XXQC0dc30LlktpO6Y00/s288/iphone_photo.jpg' border='0' width='209' height='280' style='margin:5px'></a></center><br />You suffer from third child syndrome and get left to your own devices a lot. It's lovely watching Isaac be a bigger big brother; he thinks you're fab and keeps bringing you things that he's made for you. Anna is so affectionate but she doesn't realise when she's being too rough.<br /><br /><center><a href='https://picasaweb.google.com/110685475785729203541/BloggerPictures?authkey=Gv1sRgCNXhqPSpranfaQ#6001490129184213394'><img src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiR4AvBfIajN1QX6Mep5FTQwXBDrDtCnuNgbdxNojNzFCBQKr8-wbGtk1-l0wc0raSgPQYCQJcHFI25cj92QLYoAEsaex41s77KBM-oiAlDgbzp93kmwZ0Gb4h8IZ0sAGr1J_3yjait40I/s288/iphone_photo.jpg' border='0' width='209' height='280' style='margin:5px'></a></center><br />You coo and gurgle and growl at us a lot. You like people and you smile at them readily. You love it when I sing to you and grin back at me! You seem captivated by the baby in the mirror but you won't smile at the mummy there with him!<br /><br />Posted using BlogPress from my iPhone<br />Louise Ingramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02294703588706797702noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4112013987417064751.post-58112633161313622672014-02-23T17:35:00.001+00:002014-02-24T15:34:01.075+00:00On Sunday 23rd February<i>Reading...</i> Renovation of the Heart by Dallas Willard. He writes so concretely and practically about Christian spiritual formation. But his style is dense and complex requiring a lot of concentration and sometimes rereading of sentences, paragraphs or whole sections! There's a lot of thought-provoking stuff in this book. (For less brain-heavy reading, I keep turning to my Feedly to catch up with some blogs.)<br />
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<i>Relishing...</i> the 9 hours sleep I got last night, though not the crazy-making day that preceded it. <br />
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<i>Watching...</i> Dollhouse on lovefilm. Loved this series the first time around!<br />
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<i>Feeling...</i> tired, despite the aforementioned good night's sleep. My brain still isn't functioning brilliantly; I'm easily distracted & keep losing the thread of conversation halfway through a sentence, even if I'm the one speaking.<br />
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<i>Thinking...</i> how badly our living room floor needs vacuuming. <br />
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<i>Folding...</i> mountains of laundry. I laughed at my friend (with a 3 year old and 8 month old twins) who said her washing machine is on non-stop. Couldn't believe she needed to do that much washing. Now I know better; this baby vomits. And real nappies with two? Hard. Work. <br />
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<i>Eating...</i> far too many treats. I need the extra calories for breastfeeding but I'm falling into bad habits. It's good to be aware of your body's needs. It is not good to be stuffing your mouth all day and never feeling hungry.<br />
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<i>Wishing... </i>my body would snap back to a proper clothing size. Preferably a size 10 on top and bottom. (I have never been that size in my life!)<br />
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<i>Buying... </i>things for the children. New furniture, new clothes, food. I've turned into *that* woman. "I never buy anything for myself these days."<br />
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<i>Speaking... </i>the positives about life with three children. It's far too easy to whinge about lack of sleep and not mention the baby smiles, curly ponytails and snotty kisses that make life fantastic right now. <br />
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<i>Looking forward... </i>to my time tomorrow. The older two are still going to their childcare Monday to Wednesday. It saves my sanity. I occasionally feel guilty about driving away from my children to spend my day without them. That feeling is pretty much gone by the time I get home.<br />
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<i>Loving... </i>watching Isaac being a big brother again. Seriously, the best thing about having more children is watching them be siblings.<br />
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<i>Hoping... </i>our new neighbours get the noisy parts of their DIY done soon. They've taken on a big project but they've been really considerate about noise & inconvenience to us. Looking forward to them being able to move in & getting to know them a bit more.<br />
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<i>Sitting...</i> post-feed and listening to the rest of my family eating tea downstairs.<br />
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Louise Ingramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02294703588706797702noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4112013987417064751.post-60743563894696647862014-02-09T15:50:00.000+00:002014-02-09T15:51:02.175+00:00On January 11thApologies for my absence. It's been a little busy round here.<br />
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Samuel Robert Longden Ingram</div>
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Born 11th January 2014 at 11:16pm</div>
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Weighing 8lb 14 1/2oz</div>
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He's beautiful, the children love him and I'm very tired. But what else is new?!</div>
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Actually, things are pretty great right now. I'm tired and busy but really enjoying my time with my littlest. He's growing before our very eyes. He sleeps, he feeds, what more can you ask for at this stage! Normal service to be resumed at some point.Louise Ingramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02294703588706797702noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4112013987417064751.post-80939432906670677642014-01-04T14:26:00.000+00:002014-01-04T14:26:19.483+00:00On being a supermumThere's a chap at our church who calls me Supermum. He's married with grown children; he means it kindly, not creepily. He admires the fact that I bring snacks and drinks and toys for my two to play with during the service.<br />
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I have some lovely friends who have, from time to time, also called me Supermum. And again, they mean it as a positive. A term of admiration and encouragement.<br />
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Can I let you into a little secret? Well, two actually but they're inextricably linked.<br />
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<i>1. I hate the word. Hate it. With a firey passion. Well, at least with as much passion as I can summon for anything right now.</i><br />
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<i>2. I'm not. Not in that sense anyway.</i><br />
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I want to say right away that I love the people who use it. They are good people, who see into my life and want to applaud me for what I'm doing. We all need a cheerleading squad from time to time. Even if you know what you're doing and why, there are still going to be hard times and moments of doubt when you need someone else's reassurance.<br />
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The problem I have is the separation. The notion that 'she', whoever she happens to be that day, is Supermum or Superwoman. She has something that sets her apart, something I don't have. She is more than I am. She is better than me. It separates us when I think of her as 'Super' because the corollary is that I am ordinary (no capital letter for me).<br />
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The reality is that each one of us is an individual, creating our individual families in the best way we know how. I am the only wife of my husband and the only mother to my children. I was purpose designed to love and serve them at this time and in my own, unique way. No one else can do precisely what I can do. And the same goes for you.<br />
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I have some internet friends. Even my husband finds this a bit weird but stick with me. Somehow, over social media, having only ever met 3 of them in real life, I have managed to evolve a community of mutual support and reassurance.<br />
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<i>One of them has just become a mummy for the second time. She worries about doing the best for her boys. What she doesn't see is that she bakes yummy treats and creates fun crafts with them more than I ever have with my two.</i><br />
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<i>One of them worries about her son's eating and sleeping. And yet she's managed to make something by hand for every baby she knows that was born in 2013.</i><br />
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<i>One of them has just moved house and I cannot believe the speed at which she and her husband have tweaked the decoration to be just to their liking. (Also, I'm jealous of her table-setting arrangements, it's a gift, I swear!)</i><br />
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<i>One of them is a babywearer; I (and my back) salute her. She gets herself and her two girls out of the house every day (weather permitting).</i><br />
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There are more examples. Examples of how doing what comes naturally is creating a beautiful lives for them and their children. Of choosing the best thing for them, at that time and place.<br />
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That's the positives. So here comes the balance. My confessions.<br />
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<li>I love to cook, especially savoury food but in some seasons, the idea of deciding what to feed my family every night wears on me. And the children have chicken nuggets again.</li>
<li>I don't see the point of children's crafts. It seems like a waste of materials to me. So I also can't throw away anything that the children have made.</li>
<li>I don't clean. I vacuum only when the carpet is crunchy. I recently cleaned my sink for the first time in months. I wiped down some mirrors about a month ago and was astonished at how clear the reflections could be.</li>
<li>I don't exercise. Really, honestly. I walk around at work, I push a buggy around the shops and I occasionally go swimming with my family. But I live in a village so I jump in the car for almost every trip we make, including taking my son to pre-school.</li>
<li>I have piles of organised chaos all over my house and garage. They never quite make it all the way to wherever it is that they are supposed to be going.</li>
<li>I wash our clothes when we start running out of things to wear. And then take 3 days to get things folded and another day to actually put them back into drawers.</li>
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I could go on. And on. And on.<br />
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The reality is that I cannot do everything and that actually I don't want to. So I choose the essentials (for example getting carbs, protein and vegetables into my children, having clean clothes to put on them most days) and the things that make my heart sing (taking photos, documenting our lives, reading, laughing with my children, sitting quietly with my husband) and I try my hardest to let the rest of it go. That's the limit of my abilities right now. And every single person I know is doing exactly the same.<br />
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Supermum doesn't exist. She's a myth. She has no special powers or abilities. She's a mirage.<br />
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Reality is a lot more reassuring. Supermum is me and you and your friend next door and your work colleague and your sister. She loves her children and tries her best. At the end of the day, that's all anyone could or should ask.Louise Ingramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02294703588706797702noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4112013987417064751.post-48701938114776522772014-01-03T15:12:00.005+00:002014-01-03T15:12:53.981+00:00On New Year's EveSome traditions are intentional while others just evolve over time until it's natural that they occur when they do. Our New Year's Eve celebrations are the latter; it only occurred to me this year that we have one at all.<br />
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Early on in our relationship, I had some major medical school exams in the first week of January and was studying hard. Instead of heading out on the town or getting drunk with friends, we stayed home in my student house and ate dinner together. I know, we were rock and roll back then.<br />
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This year, I'm heavily pregnant, we have 2 small children and we had just got back from our time away. We needed to get the children back into their normal routines and organising a babysitter seemed like more trouble than it was worth. Instead, we had our usual quiet evening at home. We bought ready-prepared food from Mark & Spencers (real food that you just have to chuck in the oven for the prescribed time? Yes please!) and settled down with the Homeland season 3 finale. I had a 'mocktail' and Andy had a glass of wine. We were in bed by 11pm and fast asleep for the New Year. Which was fortunate given that the children were awake, as usual, at 7am.<br />
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Life changes when you have children. Your priorities shift and you have to streamline activities to those that really do bring value to your life. And for me, a quiet evening with good food, good tv and a good man is the perfect way to end the year.Louise Ingramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02294703588706797702noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4112013987417064751.post-29653872912602697552014-01-02T11:15:00.002+00:002014-01-02T11:15:27.910+00:00On New Year's ResolutionsI wish I could say I was resolving to blog more, but I've got a busy year ahead of me. I've learned over the last few years that there's a natural ebb and flow to motherhood so I hope there'll be time for blogging some of the topics floating through my brain. Going back to having just one baby at home for three days a week is going to be an interesting change for me!<div>
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<b><i>Home</i></b></div>
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I love our house; coming home after 10 days away over Christmas reminded me just how much. Unfortunately, some parts of it just aren't working for us right now. We have a couple of big projects planned but it's the little ones and all the decluttering I have planned that are going to make the biggest difference I think.</div>
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<li>Finish decorating the nursery</li>
<li>Replace bathroom</li>
<li>Decorate hallway and staircase</li>
<li>Mammoth decluttering project!</li>
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<b><i>Craft</i></b></div>
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I have an assortment of unfinished yarn projects hanging around our living room. I'd like to say I'm going to complete them all before starting anything new, but that's never going to happen. So instead I'm going to be realistic; finish those I love and junk those that I don't. I'm carrying on my Project Life approach into 2014. I've enjoyed completing a side a week, usually working in retrospect over about a month. I also want to get more 'proper' scrapbook pages into my albums. I also need to finish the blind for our kitchen (started the last time I was on maternity leave!) and make a quilt out of the fabric I bought for the purpose before I had Isaac.</div>
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<li>Rationalise yarn projects</li>
<li>Project Life 2014</li>
<li>Scrapbooking</li>
<li>Finish kitchen blind</li>
<li>Make patchwork quilt.</li>
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<b><i>Family</i></b></div>
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I'm so pleased and proud of my family; I honestly believe I married the best man I've ever met and that we made the most wonderful children in the world together. I've learned a lot about prioritising and structure over the last few years. Children like predictability and, it turns out, so do I. We have some concrete routines in our home that work really well and we've been able to adapt them to our needs as time has passed. These simple sequences of activity performed daily (e.g. our bedtime routine) or weekly (e.g. attending the same toddler group every Thursday morning) make life happier and smoother round here. Another real positive is our approach to discipline; we aim to be calm, consistent and developmentally appropriate. I've realised lately that I've been letting Anna off the hook too easily, not noticing that she's growing up so fast. We've entered a defiant phase and she needs firm boundaries with consistent consequences. The thing that surprises me it how often I'm able to avoid taking their misbehaviour personally. I'm a short-tempered and grumpy person by nature, especially when I'm tired or hungry. You'd think I would lose my temper often with the children but actually, I find it reasonably easy to understand where their behaviour is coming from and how best to deal with it. Enough self-congratulations, there has to be a cloud, right? Well, we're in the trenches of child-raising right now. Neither of us has the time or energy that we would like to devote to our marriage. So my aim for the year is to strengthen our marriage, making sure we purposefully spend time together without our children.</div>
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<li>Continue to build a strong and long-lasting marriage; regular time together, without the children!</li>
<li>Continue to consider the children's temperaments, developmental stages and natural tendencies </li>
<li>Continue with our daily and weekly routines</li>
<li>Provide consistent discipline for the children</li>
<li>Go on a family holiday</li>
<li>Spend time with our extended families.</li>
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<b><i>Work</i></b></div>
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You'd be forgiven for thinking I could let this one slide for most of the year. Actually, I really enjoy my career and recently I've become more aware of my responsbilities both to my patients and my colleagues. I've become involved in a management group, which will mean some meetings and maybe some email-based work. I've also been given some data for a project by my educational supervisor and the direction to "make of it what you like". Added to professional development activities, that makes for a pretty full list.</div>
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<li>Attend trainees committee meetings</li>
<li>Read Archives monthly</li>
<li>Complete allergy data project</li>
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<b><i>Self</i></b></div>
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Maybe this should have been higher up? These items are going to seem slightly frivolous, but I'm ok with that. I was looking back at photos of me when I was pregnant with Isaac, goodness how I've aged since then! I'm still following the beauty regimes I had when I was a teenager (i.e. none!) and I think it's time to accept that I'm now in my thirties. So the first step is an anti-ageing face moisturiser and then, woah, maybe some eye cream? The main thing for this year is remembering the importance of seasons. I remember the enforced inactivity of the newborn days, the frustration of the nearly mobile baby and the constant watchfulness when they finally do start to move. Some days I'll get a lot done, some days it'll be enough that we're all alive and fed at the end of the day. So taking it easy on myself is going to be key for 2014, which I guess puts everything above it in perspective. It's good to have a to-do list but it's also go to let it go from time to time.</div>
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<li>Use an anti-ageing moisturiser and consider an eye cream</li>
<li>Moderate my expectations to fit the season.</li>
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